I guess when there's hurt and anger involved, it's not easy to let go.
Everything the person does will seem unacceptable, even though you know it's perfectly fine if others were to do the exact same thing.
Some days I have to remind myself (loudly), to be appreciative of the things that was done for me.
It's not easy.
But I think I should be able to do it someday, somehow.
Once he is convinced.
When he is convinced, I will be too.